Starting a family is a milestone that many couples hope to achieve once they get married. Getting pregnant, however, can be different in reality than what couples expected as there are so many little issues that can crop up to hinder fertility. These issues can be simple like waiting for a woman’s body to come back from years of birth control, to some serious things that may require medical intervention. There is another issue that people don’t talk about very often, and that is the issue of hoping to have one particular gender over another.
This isn’t a slight against the couples in question, they adore the children that they have, it really comes down to human nature. Mothers who are dealing with a house full of rowdy boys will long to spoil and dress up a daughter, while fathers with all girls may wonder what it’s like to have a son. These are not bad thoughts, just a testament to the fact that most families would want both genders.
Going about sex selection through medical means is illegal in a large number of countries. This is because of the slippery slope of moral and ethical issues that it raises. China’s emerging crisis with their disparate population of males to females is the most glaring example of what sex selection can turn into.
These ethical and moral issues are behind the restrictions against letting couples go into a doctor’s office to have sex selection done. That doesn’t mean that there aren’t loads of urban legends and folklore from all over the world that espouses natural techniques to get the baby you want. The advice can be ridiculous at times especially in relation to food, like having women eat chocolate to have a girl.
While most of these recommendations are harmless, they are also not useful, but that isn’t to say that there isn’t some good and natural advice to be found. The Plan My Baby program has been touted on a number of influential news programs, as well as in print.
Rather than being a collection of urban legends, this program is formulated through tried and tested steps. It’s important to realize that it isn’t about changing what you eat for a few days or having your husband wear boxers for a week. Real change comes from gradual changes and a commitment to staying on a program.
The program itself does not ask for too much and couples who have participated have found a success rate almost 95%. Being natural in execution is an important selling point. Couples don’t want to have to turn towards drugs since they can be both dangerous and science has not been able to elucidate the long-term effects.
Developed by a former midwife, the intentions behind this program go further than just giving you the son or daughter you want, but to protect mothers from dealing with depressive issues. Postnatal depression is already a quite serious condition and some mothers experience it unnecessarily as a result of not having the gender they wanted even though they love the children that they have.
This is because with this book you’ll learn about conception in a way that goes much further than the basic facts. So many little things can affect outcome like vaginal pH. There are also difference between X and Y sperm that you can learn to understand and take into account when having a child.
If you’re wanting a boy or a girl to add to your family, or have preferences on how yours should start, there is no reason not to give this program a try. Don’t get pulled into urban legends when you can get information that is tried, tested, and true.